I don’t feel like I’m judging her because she wanted all those babies. Lots of people grew up lonely, longing for larger families than they had…that’s kind of sweet, albeit a totally romantic notion of what childhood should look like.
What I’m uncomfortable with is that she doesn’t have any money. I don’t either and that’s why I’m not having any more children right now.
And if I was hoarding my money to pay for babies but not the food and necessaties they require, I would hope someone sane would stop me and ask me a lot of questions. Because I guarantee I wouldn’t be able to answer them and would then hopefully change my mind.